ok so i went to a wedding tonight. not my own. and i think this is the thing i am most disappointed about. weddings are hilarious, but i bet they are way more fun when they are your own. Loren? doug? anyways.. kelly it's very exciting that you are coming down. you know you always have a place to stay at my house. as long as your friend isn't #1 homeless or #2 a racist bubble gum king... you are welcome. (i'm basing those criteria on past instances when i have woken up to strange men on my living room floor) maybe we could split the weekend up... stay at deb's one night and stay at my house the other. we'll see. i'm sure it will all work out. oh yeah one more thing before i go. i knew every single damn song they played at the wedding. no seriously, every song. i think having my old car only programed to oldies stations really affected me. ok, that's enough for me tonight.

ps i didn't catch the boquet. thank god.

I think weddings are more fun when they're not your own. Doug and I didn't see much of each other at our wedding. You're expected to talk to everyone so you don't spend much time with any one person.