liz it was good to see your words up on the page.... but i need to add a little comment about how i can't stand guys. i was relaxing watching tv on my couch last night.. .it was hot in san diego so to be honest with you i was wearing undies and a t-shirt and for some reason something caught my eye outside my window. i saw the eyes and top of the head of a man next door peering at me across my baclony. i mean this jerk was watching me. from right next door. hanging his body off his balcony to see me. i immediatly got off the couch and sat indian style in the middle of the floor where he couldn't see me. i was so nervous. i didn't know what to do. how long had he been there? how many times had he done that before? was he really just watching me? i found some jeans and got up and closed the sliding glass door and blinds. he was gone. i went and i locked every window and every door. and started crying. serisouly what was he doing and why was he lloking at me... in reality his balcony is adjacent to mine.. he was only like 10 feet away. so i got on the computer to afraid to call anyone cause he might hear my voice through the wall. i found one of my friends and he gave me his number at work. and i called him. and talked to him for like an hour. i thought i felt better. but after i went to bed. i had so many horrible nightmares. each one having to do with someone breaking into my house and hurting me. i woke up this morning i have bags under my eyes. it's only 7:00am and i have already moved my furniture around in my living room so if for some reason i ever open my blinds again the couch is on the other side of the room and impossible to see. i don't even know what this guy looks like. so if i see him i can't yell at him. i'm just angry. it's not fair. it just isn't fair.

What a disgusting freak. He's probably just a loser and not dangerous, but you never know (and you never find out until it's too late). Do you have any roommates?

i contacted my landlord... i guess two girls live there. he said he talked to the girl that lived there and she said she would talk to the man. he said i shouldn't put up with it and that i am to call him (the landlord) at anytime during the night if it ever happens again. Loren, seriously i've been so upset all damn day. i'm still angry.